Globe Gazette newspaper (Mason City, Iowa).?? ???This is what my brother would have done and you can???t hate forever,??? Cindy Wisher said in court after the sentencing of the man who, driving a vehicle while he was intoxicated, killed her brother.?? She said that she is thankful that 20 months went by between the incident and the court sentencing.?? It gave her and her family time to adjust and to come to the forgiveness decision.