In my experience, there are two basic reasons why people bristle at the word “forgiveness.” First, some are actually confusing the term forgiveness with other terms such as excusing, caving in, being a wimp, and automatic reconciliation without protecting oneself. In other words, they actually are not upset with forgiveness but with a misunderstanding of it. Second, some people are so resentful of others that they want to push forgiveness under the rug and not discuss it. As long as they do not try to prevent others from forgiving, then this is their choice, which may not be their final word on the matter. In other words, some day they may change and want to try forgiving.