The Good Old School Days

OK, everyone, it is time to reflect on those good old school days of yore, those care-free days when everyone thought we did not have a care in the world. Yet, sometimes we carry burdens from those days and we do so in the silence of our own hearts. When was the last time that you, as an adult, had a discussion about your days in elementary, middle, or high school? When was the last time you had such a discussion with an emphasis on the emotional wounds you received back then? I am guessing that such discussion-times have been quite rare.

I wonder how many of you reading this still have some unresolved issues from the good-old-days. It is in school, within the peer group, at recess, on the sports team that our current sense of self is shaped, at least to a degree. Sometimes we are influenced by those days to a greater extent Good Old Daysthan we realize.

So, it is time for a little quiz. Please think about your days in school and see if you can identify one person who was unjust to you, so unjust that when you think about the person now, it hurts. This person is a candidate for your forgiveness. I have an important question for you: How has this person inadvertently influenced your own view of yourself? How has this person’s actions made you feel less than who you really are? Do you see that it is time to change that?

My challenge to you today is to take steps to forgive him or her for those behaviors long ago that have influenced you up to this very moment. It is time to take a better look at what happened, to forgive, and then to ask the question after you forgive: Who am I now as I admit to the injustice, admit to it negatively influencing how I have seen myself all these years, and who am I now as I stand in forgiveness?

Perhaps the good old days will seem a little brighter once you forgive. You will have lifted a silent burden.

Robert

3 thoughts on “The Good Old School Days

  1. V.E.G. May 30, 2015 / 11:43 am

    George Werner Hochsprung possibly forgave the gunman. He said, “I’m not angry anymore, I’m not angry. I am very sad.” Hochsprung’s wife was a hero.

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  2. Samantha May 30, 2015 / 1:59 pm

    Your suggested exercise here hit the target for me. Yes, I do have some work to do with a teacher who did not exactly make my schooling experience “the good old school days.”

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  3. Brian June 3, 2015 / 8:52 am

    C.S. Lewis said that a school master was so cruel that it affect Mr. Lewis for much of his life. Forgiving those from our past can set us free.

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